Crimson......still just checkin' in.

[2ndTimeHurt]

I just wanted to say that I can relate to a lot of what you're going through. The things you've mentioned hit home pretty hard with me. The one thing I have experience with is om. Since the first time my ex left she's dated(or had sex with) close to 10 guys in 2 years. And that's with a 7 month reconciliation mixed in. All I can say is, if your xw is truly messed up, these relationships don't last. In my case my ex didnt take responsibility in any of her failed r's. broken people have broken r's.

I can totally relate to feeling like you're are just done. Nothing wrong with that man. I wrestle with the same thing as you. Needing space and havin that come across as punitive. I send my ex pics(of s3) too but I'm trying not to care what she thinks when I don't do the same nice things I used to. It's about us now. If we need time and space to figure stuff out, we deserve it. I want to tell my ex the same thing, that I just want to disappear from her life for a while.

You seem like you know what you're doing. Good job man.