Thank you everyone for chiming in over the course of the last week or so. It felt a lot like BD, or the second time she moved out.....but I'm moving through it faster. Kind of have moments throughout the day where I get too deep in my head and have a quick panic attack but they pass. I realize many of you have dealt with OM/OW from day one or not long thereafter. Mine has appeared 2.5 years later. I can find a way to deal.