Braveheart, your post just popped up for me for some reason. I think I may have stood up for myself tonight?? My friends have been saying he is having his cake for a while now. His bills are paid, his kids are taken care of, and he comes and goes as he pleases. He mentioned today that if he moves out (something I have been trying to avoid while also secretly kinda thinking should happen) that he would have to live between my house on the nights I work, his siters house, and his brothers house. I instantly thought to myself "Why am I not letting this happen? He needs to see how this would be. He has no job, no income, nowhere to live. He is here with me where his bills are paid, his insurance is covered, he is close to school, he has good internet to do his school work. He is sitting pretty with a girl on the side."


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month