It's Time to Sing a Brand New Song

[Mimi00]

Next week is my birthday, so it will be officially a year since H began his BD mission. Last year, this time he told me maybe we shouldn't be together....and he and his sister knew his plans to leave....but he told me not to worry....a few days later he flew back to where he lives and I got DB book and started LRT...which probably wasn't the best technique to start with but I felt I had no other option as he was living hundreds of miles away.

O well.

A few days ago an old college friend commented on an old IG pic of mine... he told me to call him so we could catch up (I guess w/ there being no pics of my H on any of my social media...it's starting to become obvious I am no longer in a relationship). I don't have his number and never have to my knowledge.... so that's funny. But interestingly enough he lives where I am headed to this weekend to get my furniture out of storage....so I told him I'd be in town.

Then a few days later an old co-worker left me a message on FB saying he's back in town (where I live) from his traveling job and wants to connect. I had a really big crush on him back in 2006 when we worked together lol....so I definitely told him I've love to re-connect and gave him my number. So we'll see if he calls


I'm a bit excited this. I've been hanging out with females only, for the last 8 months since moving here...and I work at an all female agency....so it would be a nice change.

My signed dissolution paper work arrived to H's PO Box 17 days ago.... I wish I knew if he has filed or not. I guess I don't like being left in the dark about where things are in the process or what happens next if he has filed (I think the court waits 91 days to make things final after a filing)....

I can't wait until my mind can be completely off of that subject.