She's returning home for in house separation!

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Now the basement is quiet so she may have come home and gone right to her room so I don't see how upset she is.

This ^^^^^^ is mindreading. I know it is hard, but you really need to focus on you and what you can do instead of focusing so much on your W.

I agree but now here is something else making me nutso

So at10:30 the phone started ringing, my son did not want to answer it but I would not either.

It was his mother. She said she will be home by 11:30. So he starts yelling at me , don't ask me any questions don't talk about it blah blah..

I was not going to say a thing.

All I can think of is that Her OM and her were crying in each other's arms, he is such a phony and cries and whines all the time, plane was not leaving until midnight she stayed at the airport to the last minute.

He then came down and said oh by the way she did not seem upset.

So all I could think is she already cried her freaging eyes at.

I don't know why I allowed this..

It would have been so much better if I knew nothing and she was just going to her own place.

The problem is I am having anxiety pangs as if I am waiting for my dedicated loving wife to come home, meanwhile my IC says I am afraid of her and it's really nerves of fear not love.