Discovering the buck stops here....

[BrightFuture]

I could not stop laughing at that “vibrating brain” comment for a few min. No wonder the doctor could not help himself to laugh too.

It seems that your H has some kind of fantasy in his head that he wants to live in and doesn’t want to give it up. Are you sure this counseling is doing you any good? Looks like one more reason for him to be angry at you. I almost want to say that the best therapy for your H would be a reversed psychology. Everyone needs to tell him how awesome the OW is that he cannot give her up under any circumstances, because she is going to fix all his problems. But at the same time you need to turn around and walk away from him.