Ambiv, I was “touch me not” when I was a kid. I think this was part of my problem in my M, because I also withheld some physical touch from H. I’m a changed person now.

My H was like that when we just for married, and for a few years after that. He would send me the post cards and notes saying that he missed me. It was pretty amazing considering that he is not a guy who can express his feelings easily. Recently I was going through some stuff and found these cards and notes. It made me cry.

The key is to not lose this connection, to always be a woman of his dreams. And you can do it now, after you went thought a school of DB and learnt a lot about the relationship. I have much hope for you.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state