ZEW-

A plan? The secrecy and mystery has me wondering what you are doing. You are lucky OM has a W to tell. My H OW is divorced, makes it hard to break it up. They are just friends anyway - UMMMM WHATEVER!!!

Sounds like you have been thru the wringer. I am sorry. But it sounds like you still have fairly good contact with your W - this is good.

I do have concern for your anger, which I can see. But as you can tell I have anger too, and am not concerned about it. LOL This is a difficult journey. I am just waiting for H roller coaster to crash and see what he comes out as.