I am the one that is the nice person, and now he is using it to stomp on me. Everyone that knows both of us is wondering what he is doing because I am a very nice person and a good mom. So I think the saying "nice guys finish last" applies to me...LOL
However, H only has his new friends since this started, and one is OW. He is playing nice guy and poor me I am the victim of my wife. BOO HOO for him. They are carrying on EA and PA - but just friends, while I am home taking care of kids, cleaning, and cooking. Yeah! I am the mean one. Funny how the mind gets twisted.
So I do agree with you that the MLCer thinks that they are nice and we are evil, they are the VICTIMS. Silly huh?
My H thinks he is nice waiting until work thing is done and I am ready for the divorce. PLEASE? I love him, but he is freakin insane at times.
I have decided my life is a soap opera combined with game of chess. The soap opera is due to the crazy insane things H does and the EA and PA that supposedly no one knows about. The chess game comes into play as we are trying to figure out each others moves to how to act. Mainly me playing chess, and he keeps making the wrong moves. UGH!
