Take a breath. Stop wondering and worrying about her--what she is doing or thinking or feeling. And worry about yourself. Detach and GAL. Don't strategize so much. Just try to become the man that only a fool would walk away from.
Thanks Claire. I read your thread and see you are going through your own situation. I appreciate you taking the time to post on mine.
I have been figuring if I just be me the man she fell in love with.
It's just that my concern stems from the fact that OM is returning tonight to his country. She plans on going there the end of May but did by cancellation insurance.
It's just hard,she acts as if he's her husband and her and I are just friends.
What I don't get is she says she has not loved me for a long time, but admits that the sex between us was amazing. When I asked how could that be, she said well when I had sex with you it was exciting it's like I was cheating..WTF, she was cheating on AP with husband?.
Anyway..the way she thinks is so illogical that it makes me feel like I am walking on egg shells.
So I am assuming that just being the best me, but taking a friendly neighbor approach is my best option at this time.
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