Who you want to be as a man, a husband a father. The creed you live by, the principles/values that are your center and your guide. Asking questions like how would you would like to be remembered can be helpful.
I know how I FEEL about who I want to be but finding the correct words is difficult. I have always been hard on myself with finding the correct words, especially with emotional language.
Part of this is because of being stereotyped as a "math" mind, but I was in advanced placement English in high school. I also don't read novels much, mostly technical based writings so my vocabulary is not what those that are well read are. Yeah I know, excuses...
I would like to be remembered as loving, open, kind, caring, hard working, intelligent, critical, supportive, dedicated, enjoyer of live... but who wouldn't. I need to expand on these things.
I know I have always wanted to "make a difference that left the world a better place" but I am not sure what that feeling means when put to specifics. My job does not have much of a "human" aspect of it and maybe this is an area lacking in my life.
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