W's friends are advising her to get to L. They are afraid that I am going to have her served.
I am in no rush to do that, yet: 1. It wouldn't be DB 2. It would make me the bad guy 3. It's to my financial advantage to have her earn as much as possible at new job before figuring out alimony/support.
So, it would appear that she has credible threat of D by me. Yet, OM still in picture as of yesterday.
D12 asked W yesterday, "Mommy, if Daddy has no money to put on your CC, how come he can go out to dinner?" (My GAL dinner on Tuesday)
I feel all DB has had no effect on this, other than helping me come to grips. Just seems that every day, she is more resolved on her path. I believe that problems are typically easier to resolve the earlier are tackled. I am really reduced to just letting this ride?
