Loot and lawyers ...

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Omgoodness. H is on a *roll* today for some reason.

Just texted that he just opened his own personal bank account and I will need to go shut down the joint account. I told him that's no problem - I'll handle it when I return from my vacation. I asked if he would need the new account information for direct-deposit. He said "you bet."

Then, he texted, "Then all that's left (to split) is car insurance."

And then ... "Oh, and the actual marriage."

I ignored that and just asked him to re-confirm about not paying the mortgage. I said, "With the decrease in support being about $1,300/month (I think - haven't crunched numbers yet), I'll obviously not be able to pay the mortgage. Just double-checking that's what you still want me to do?" He wrote, "All up to you. I give a f**k about the house. You might wanna see if you can refinance, cause of the circumstances and keep it for yaself."

I wrote back, telling him refinancing would take me having a job, "which means $800-$1K a month in daycare for D2. All kinds of obstacles."

He wrote: "Yup."

And I said: "Enjoy your day. We'll see you later. :(" The frown face was SERIOUSLY a complete accident, so I quickly wrote: "Oops:) lol"

Something has set him on FIRE this week! Whewwww dawgy!