DB GOAL SETTING THREAD - What are your goals?

[cczamo]

I think this is an awesome way to get goal ideas. Thanks, Upwards.
My goals:
1- remove STBX from speed dial on my cell.
2- learn computer and cell tech so I dont have to ask STBX (my tech specialist) for help any more. Or to find good help on this from others.
3- get back to maintaining my cool, yet friendly DB with STBX after losing it last FRiday upon my discovering OW.
4- planning ahead more re GAL, rather than thinking of what to do that same day.
5- Find out what I like to do, and do it. Still not sure what that is, in terms of hobbies, etc.
6- Work on making new single girl friends.
7- becoming more independent and being brave enough to go out and meet new people by myself. Even consider planning a trip alone, because traveling alone scares me to death.
8-keep off the 15 lbs that DB stress allowed me to lose without any more additional pain than I was already feeling with Separation/D/OW/BD...
9-Become the woman that H was crazy to leave,
10-Detach and detach and detach to the point where, at some point down the road, I'll catch myself and say, "Wow, it's been xx (hours, days, weeks, or months) since I've (been sad about XH, or thought about XH), because my life is so awesome without him.
11- get to the point where I dont look forward to being giddy when H realizes what a HUGE mistake he made in destroying our M and leaving me.