Thats great LN, time to get back to being yourself or what you want to be yourself.
I found it interesting that you said he wants to be thought of as the "nice guy." My W told me she beleives she is being very nice to me. She could be alot worse (especially from what I have read here),but I wouldn't call entering an EA with a so-called friend then not even trying to work on R with me, then kicking me out and implying that I need to change to be a better father and not for her to be very nice...
I needed to vent that here, because I know it would do no good telling her this.
Just ordered Codependent No More for my next reading per my therapist. Hoping for help detaching and understanding more about myself.


BD OM EA 9/2013
ICAYBDNLY 10/2013
I Move out 1/2014
Separation draft sent 5/2014
S13 S13 S9