Thanks! Yes, I couldn't have asked for feedback better than that, and that it was unsolicited really made it all the better.
I know I have to tread cautiously though... Even as W sems to soften and move closer to me, I am expecting another big pull-back from her at some point. I will just try to stay as consistent as possible and stick to my changes. I am noticing the positive effects they are bringing about in my life, not just in my R with my W. I know that if I can keep this up, and W chooses to leave any way, I will have become a better person anyway (albeit a work in progress) and I will be able to hold my head up high.
Just going to take things one day at a time.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14