I have now decided to use the Easter break as a last time together weekend. It's obvious she is only suggesting things together because otherwise she would be on her own. I will make it the best weekend I can for the boys and make every effort to be relaxed around her. After that I am going into full LRT mode, I am tired of her games and cake eating and I really need to move on now. I am wondering should I tell her at the end of our days together that it is the last time for it or should I just get on with doing it?