Not a goal, but FWIW, I set goals into two groups....
1. Goals for me
2. Relationship/exW/M goals
Doing that helped my focus on them better, and it felt I achieved them more often.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13