I tend to set short term (2 weeks) goals to improve things with me & H then I do longer term ones for me personally & things in general
My general ones:
1/ Sell our house & move to new house - fresh start very much needed! 2/ Voluntary work - still trying to figure what I want to do. 3/ Spend some quality 1 to 1 time with each of the kids separately. 4/ Continue to uncover my fears & work on myself. 5/ Detach more & stay detached - keep slipping on this one. 6/ Remind myself often that I deserve to be loved, respected & treated with dignity.
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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