"Since you seem to have gotten some guidance that you think is fair, as to what this should cover (and since it won't even allow me to continue to make the mortgage payment), can you let me know which obligations this is all intended to cover?"
He has already told me to stop paying the mortgage. He hates the house. He's done with this place. Etc. etc. etc.
What would I be trying to GET him to say in a response?
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014