I went to my divorce group last night, there's only 2 sessions left now. I really feel good about it, so glad I went. I can tell it has helped me tremendously. The counselor told us all this nice little prayer to do and you're supposed to do it every day for 2 weeks. All you do is say "may <insert MLC'r name here> have everything good in life that I have ever wanted for myself"
that's it.. every day for 2 weeks in a row, do not miss a day or you have to start over. It is supposed to help you get rid of resentfulness. I'm going to try tonight and see if after 2 weeks it helps me with that. Reading some of the reconciliation posts today for renewed hope. Such a long hard journey this is.


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs