zew,

Thank you so much for this perspective. I'm going to chew on it once I've breathed my way through my H's jerk-offedness this morning.

Because right now, all I want to do is choke him out.

mad

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014