GM, It's his loss and he'll never regain the time he's lost w/his family, especially w/his boys. He thinks money will buy him happiness, but when the funds run out he'll discover that he's lost everything.
I'm sorry that you are having to make a decision such as this, but sometimes your peace of mind is more valuable than the money you've lost along the way. Yes, you've lost quite a bit, but when you do sign the paperwork, the heavy burden you have carried for such a long time will be lifted off your shoulders for you will know then that the tension and his contact about money will be over and then you can finally put all of your focus on you and your sons.
Try not to look at the glass half empty...I see a lot of positives going on here and hopefully one day soon, so will you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
