I thought I had it managed, but I've started waking up at 2am again with horrible anxiety. I was sleeping better since he moved out and I got some breathing room, but it's started again within the last week. I think it's happening because he keeps forgetting agreements he has made with respect to our financial separation and I'm realizing I really am going to have to file for legal separation to have a boundary I can trust. What's worse, he has started talking about leaving is job and freelancing. I probably need to file before he makes that move. His OW left her husband a few years back and left her job in the process. I suspect it was a calculated move for higher child and spousal support (I'm the higher earner in my marriage). My old H would never be so devious, but I don't know what the alien who replaced him is capable of. It makes me so sad that I'm in this situation.
M43 H43 M14 T22 when it all fell apart D12 S10 "Never have been happy" 3/2013 EA/PA since 2/2013 H moved out 11/2013 H looking to buy a house where OW can live with him 5/2015 Very cordial, nothing filed
