so the papers turned out to be related to a pension policy cancelled 5 years ago and a junkmail flyer.
Not clear to me what or why it is important for my WAW to drip feed like this.

a) Is she looking to cause a reaction in me in order that she can say that I am being unreasonable ?

b) Propably she does not realise the effect it has on me as a LBS and that I am now probably hyper-sensitive to any little thing when I should just ignore it.

c) More likely reason: That I have still not processed the situation and I am reacting to any little thing that reminds me that I am being railroaded into a divorce.