I am sorry that you work at the same company, at least it is a different location. Can they be fired for their affair?
I have not figured out why he is being so nice. He actually talked to me when he called the girls tonight. That has happened like 3 times in 6 months. Maybe he feels guilty for monstering in the middle of the night - but I think there is more to it. Last time he was nice, he watched a movie with me only to pump me for information after. UGH! I must have I am a dumb sh...t written on my head...NOT! This was his first trouble at work, he wanted to know who I talked to as I have friends at his work as well.
I will have opportunity to have GAL with friends soon. I have family moving to town that can watch the kids. I have to be very careful what I do as H has mentioned he is gathering evidence on me. I have done nothing, but considering he lies like a rug - no telling what he is going to do.
Good idea on the 180. I never thought about standing up for myself. I will probably have to say something, and then leave the room, as he has a short temper.
I cannot believe 2 to 7 years is the norm. I will be ancient before he recovers....UGH! I am not sure how long he was in MLC before BD. He has issues with depression so it is hard to decipher exactly. I know it was at least 4 months before. Actually when I think of it these 6 months have been painful, but have gone by fast. Wish I could get a crystal ball and skip 7 years and be done with this insaneness.
