tld -- I've found we HAVE to maintain a sense of humor about all of this. It's a really good way to deal with it. And someday, we'll look back on it all and have a good, long belly laugh. This board makes me laugh daily. (So does my MLC H, these days, though it took a while for me to get to where I could laugh about it.) It really helps. Hang in there, and I'm sorry I don't have any lawyerly advice for you...


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15