I am sorry to hear that things are the way they are but you are actually in a good place because most M's don't get fixed until the LBS can get to the point where they don't care. My M was saved because of the books and the great advice on this site, I just don't post too often in my own thread and I think that happens with the M's that are saved. I wouldn't even know what to post except the occasional "doing well" but I do like to share my story on newcomer's pages to offer hope. I hope you will keep coming here because the best part of DB/DR is how we turn out from the work we are doing and that will be important in the future no matter who your R is with.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13