Buddy, sorry you are here. Your post reads like you have a lot more self awareness today than you did the day before BD. Keep working on you and you'll be set up for success in the future with or without W.

I'm interested in the courses you took. I'm not sure where you live, I'm in the US, and about to start a program voluntarily whose participants are usually there from a court order. How did it help you? Does W know you took them?

As far as the D2, have you consulted a L? Knowledge on options is worth the price, and given W's reaction to your request, an absolute necessity.


me: 45 W:45
M 20 years
T 22 years
S14, S13, S11, D9
BD 2/28/14
D papers served 3/3/14
I moved out 3/15/14
MC start 4/2/14
I moved in 6/2/14
D suit withdrawn 6/30/14