Hey, Dad2fiv. Sorry for your situation. Can you give any more details to your R leading up to BD? If you haven't already, get the Divorce Remedy book. Most of the points talked about on the site come from language used in the book. In the meantime, work on yourself. You can only control you.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10