You mean business. I understand what you are saying, but I am a wimp. Last night I told him he could not talk to me that way and left the room. I went thru several times of saying that and several rooms before he got the hint. Anytime I say anything about OW - he is in denial they are just friends. He would be fired if Ow was found out. How can I call the police if he is just following me around the house nagging me - doesn't he have to be hitting me? I also am terrified what he will do if I push his buttons too much. He says when his work thing is over he is going to divorce me - and I believe him. He is living in delusional land thinking he can save his job and get his enemies fired and then be with his OW. Right now the OW is a big secret, but people have suspensions. If he would not lose his job I would tell on him.
I am not sure how to show I mean business without getting the retaliation. I knew he was going to be pissed at me, but not that pissed. He has been gentle lately as he needs me for this whole work thing - which I have not figured out why because he is telling me nothing. He thinks he has a case however - delusional land?
I will try standing up to him Mr Bond. Thanks for helping me as always.
