He just doesn't function like a normal person and it is getting more and more apparent.
This is sadly common in MLC. My ex flat-out didn't remember things he said to me when he was in crisis. Looked at me like I was crazy when I would tell him what he said.
And your H really doesn't quite know how he landed in this pickle. He was supposed to float off on a pink cloud with OW in a zipless divorce. He wasn't supposed to have to deal with any messy financial realities, or kid issues, or any of that. So all HE knows is that he woke up one day in a pile of doo-doo.
