The move is almost certainly tactical on her part so she can rid herself of the guilt of not trying MC. She truly thinks I'll decline. She hasn't given up OM. She won't admit it in MC - she's had too much coaching.

So we're looking at the alternative of sticking with the conditions of entry (no OM), or going (with or w/o a proper MC selection), and maybe she sees that I am willing to admit fault and work on things, and that somehow changes her perspective.

Veterans on this board suggest that doesn't happen. MC for a WAW in an A will only serve to confirm to them why they are leaving, because you admit fault, and they hear nothing after that.