arrgh! feels like a physical punch in the stomach and I am not sure I am handling these situations correctly either for myself or in an appropiate DB way.
So today I get an email from my WAW clarifying in detail the kids schedule for the next two days and Easter and in the middle of it
> 1)Tonight I will pass you a bag with some papers that I found
Where tonight is the sports evening with the kids at my workplace which I thought yesterday she had agreed not to use to discuss issues regarding the separation. No details of what papers she is talking about.
Anyway here below was my response about which I really am not sure if my answer was appropiate or helpful. I am constantly second guessing my self it feels like.
Dear xxxxx Thankyou for the clarification of the children's schedule for the next two days. Regarding the bag with papers: 1. Work is not the appropiate place to transfer papers. 2. What papers are you reffering to? It is inappropiate to start emptying the house of paperwork prior to mediation
Regarding the points about the children sure no problems. Regards xxxxxx
