No, I did not like him showing up at my house unannounced. But the kids were there and I didn't want to make a scene. He asked if we could talk for a few minutes and I said for a few minutes. I don't have time for a long conversation. He basically said his peace, handed me the paperwork, told me he had the kids all next week and left. I really feel like he is becoming more and more unhinged.
H and I are to meet at my attorney's office for a settlement hearing on Friday. H was demanding my attorney meet us at the library in our hometown so H didn't have to drive. I don't think so. He wants me to pay my attorney to drive back and forth from our town back to his office? That's over 60 miles. H can get bent. He can drive to my attorney's office and get someone to watch the kids. Loser.
H is also demanding to my attorney that he cannot have his paralegal present. Really? Why? H is making all these demands to my attorney. Who exactly does he think he is? I am his client, hello! H even said if he doesn't like where the meeting is going he will leave and all negotiations will be off the table.
And H has so much conviction in what he says. I think he believes his lies to be the truth! How else can you explain it? He convinces himself that his own lies are not lies and if he believes the lies then it is the truth and therefore he is not lying! (Are you picking up what I am laying down?).
I am really starting to think something is really wrong inside H. It doesn't change anything, but it is starting to really worry me. He just doesn't function like a normal person and it is getting more and more apparent.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
