I had told W that I was willing to go to MC only after she was rid of OM and there were just 2 of us in the M.
Now she would like to book an MC session. She thinks I won't go because I will never admit to being wrong on anything. Then she can say I refused. She wants to go to someone recommended by her therapist. Her therapist has a very lopsided view of me, is pro-D, and has told W to never admit A, since I will hold it over her forever.
Of course, I would like some say in the selection of MC, someone solution-based, pro-M. And it is pointless to go until A is over and W gets through withdrawal period.
I can simply decline because the ended A condition that I stipulated hasn't been met. She'll lie and just say that I refused going, but all she does is lie anyway, so I guess this is all status quo.
