Crimson......still just checkin' in.

[labug]

Don't look to your W for your worth, that has to come from inside you. You may never get it from her but what does it matter? She doesn't think much of herself, either. She seems a pretty empty shell.

Stop dissecting her, you will never be OK with it. She is who she is until she decides to change. It seems that you still want some control here, you want her to change to be someone she isn't. Let that go.

Enjoy the great R with your S, help him navigate these muddy waters, continue being the best dad you can be, communicate with her as little as possible.

You can do this.