Great post Georgia - glad you found a good L. It does help to know you have certain things you can control (yourself and your choices). I can relate to that whole "never his fault" comment and the never apologizing thing too. I get that whole "part of me feels happy and at peace" thing too, there are times I truly do feel that since he moved out. Part of me still feels in limbo though even though we're divorced now. I think that comes from that little bit of hope that one day he'll wake up from MLC. I do think there's more strong days than down lately. I'll take any improvement I can smile


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs