Wow for all these years I have asked her to leave work on time on Fridays so we can start our weekend, or occasionally when I came back from being away and it was the middle of the week, NEVER HAPPENED , GOT ME TOLD " your not the boss of me I'll get home when I can"
But the last conversation we had about two weeks ago, I get oh it's Friday "he" likes me to leave before Shabbos starts( the Jewish sabbath, oh and he's not one iota religious), I need to get out of work by 5, or oh we have dinner plans HE hates when I leave late remember he sits around waiting for me all day..
These thoughts drive me crazy absolutely out of my mind.
Now I know you will say STOP TALKING TO HER...I HAVE, but she's coming back for this in-house separation, at least for a fee weeks..
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965