Hi "Kyle", sorry that you find yourself on here. However you won't find a better group of people who can help to get you back on track.
So first things first. You need to read Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy. The books not just the site. This is so you can understand the concepts we describe to you here.
Next, you need to detail your marital history here as much as possible so we can help you to formulate a plan. Don't worry. This place is safe and you don't need to use any name if you don't want to.
We can just refer to you as 1Wish.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.