Don't apologize. You're not supposed to use your real name anyway. You may have guessed that my parents didn't really name me Grocerykartman.
Second, that's what the Board is for, to hear your problems. You are not crashing a private party here.
Tell us what's going on. Do not be shy. Include your age, W's age, kids, how long you've been married, known each other, all that kind of stuff. You'll be on moderation for a while, so post often.
Csdet usually is the first one to greet new posters, so hopefully he will chime in. I thought I would respond to you just because I don't want to see you apologize anymore.
And, if by chance you are doing this kind of over apologizing to your W right now during the tough times, you need to stop it.
But, let's hear your story.
M-34 XW-32 D-7 Found OM's presence 4/09 Separated 12/09 Divorced 8/10 GREAT relationship as coparents since 8/10
