Who says his life is so wonderful? Quit making assumptions. It is natural to mourn what you have lost. So mourn and then move on. No he isn't coming back. I say that with certainty because you are way too wrapped up in them to even make changes that you need to make to get past this.
No body wants someone that is so reliant on them to define their own lives. Get a hopping and work on you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory