Thank you but I feel that it is beyond hope as he wants to file sooner than he originally said. Also he said there's too much differences in how we want to raise my children, my family has turned a cold shoulder to him and even said disparaging comments about him which he found out about. So he has basically said that those things he can't handle and needs the divorce so he can move on as he feels stuck until it is done. I foolishly thought him staying in contact and wanting to see me more meant he was feeling some connection to me. I got upset in front of him and I saw the determination and coldness in him again....I think it is better to just give up since the divorce is inevitable
Me 34 M 2.5 (Both 2nd M) My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12 BD 2/14 D final 7/2014