I am so glad to hear that you had a great time with your kids! Aren't they special, eh?
Amazed to read of the mix up on the process server's part. I'm not sure if it is your L's fault entirely. I would want to hear the L's side of the story first before jumping to conclusions.
Be prepared for W to come straight out of her foxhole right at you. Put on your helmet and tighten up that chin strap! I get how you are not feeling too fine about filing for D...you gotta do what you need to get access and time with your kids.
How's GALing? Are you getting back into the music field? How's that going for you?