MC tomorrow. H doesnt see why we have to go. He started an R talk this morning.

He still needs OW in his life. She is good for him. Its not hurting me, I need to just get over it.

I say it isnt good for him, and its costing him his marriage.

He tells me I don't know that. That doesn't even make sense. Im pretty sure that I do know....

And I know too that I can't do this much longer. This is a text H sent me today.

I think with someone like me you need to be able to endure. I don't have the ability to endure a lengthy relationship. And I have with you, and I give you all the credit for that.

I have to endure? That never came up in his proposal. Will you endure me?

Sigh. Feeling very low.

~ Jaye

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.