I completely follow you now. I'm gaining tons of insight as I read through your story, so thank you for sharing and passing the links.

I'm going out to GAL and drink too much wine with a beloved Buddhist friend.

I'm sure to be posting more later. wink

Thank you, Starsky.

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014