Life in a mess 2

[dingo]

About those 180's:

You will get confusing, conflicting advise telling you that these are for you, not to "manipulate" or whatever.

It says right in the DR book to do 180's, GAL and "be mysterious." Then check WAS reactions, if any, to your changes. Then, keep doing what works, stop what doesn't work.

So, yeah…these things kinda are for WAS benefit as well as your own.

I think a good 180 would be to cancel the Easter thing.

I think you have to be a little careful with this train of thought. Yes, you are hoping that the changes cause the WAS to reconsider. However, since you have no control over that, if you approach these changes with that goal in mind, there is a change you will fail. If you make the changes you want for yourself, you cannot fail.

With respect to changing to what works and stop doing what doesn't - you have to stay true to yourself with these changes. If you can't live your changes because they aren't really you but were just done to lure the WAS back, there is a pretty good chance you will ultimately revert and be right back in the same position.