Life in a mess 2

[dingo]

My $0.02:

Take a hard look at your real motivations. Is Easter really about the boys or is there more to it? If Easter is truly about the boys, then make it about the boys and stop wondering what it will do to your wife or your marriage. If there is more to it, accept that no matter what happens, its not likely to cause any drastic changes in your situation either way.

WAS's need to lose something before they reconsider - especially when an affair is involved. You are not letting her feel the loss that her decisions will ultimately result in.