Andy, I'm not up to date on your sitch, but I can tell you that my WAW went through the same thing. We had barely any contact Oct- Dec, then come Jan she started to make plans to do things as a family almost every weekend. I took that as a positive sign, only to discover she was cake eating while her R with OM heated up. I don't say this to discourage you, just would encourage you to go slow with it regardless of her intentions.