"I feel they need to stick up for themselves and not get walked all over buy their future wives. But they also have a duty to be a good husband "

I'm not exactly sure how you plan to define this. You just teach them RESPECT.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER